So what if practicality inteferes with compromisation? Would you forgo compromising and just be practical or vice versa?
If one keeps brushing the other off, how do you even communicate? How can one endure in a marriage without these two Cs? -Compromise and Communicate?
What if one keeps on trying to emphasize and getting her point across, the other still ignores it?
Won't you question how far he willing to sacrifice in this marriage? Won't you question your part as a wife/ a partner in this marriage/ relationship? What are we/who am I?
How can one continue to keep on "forcing myself to understand" because he's firm with his decisions?
What about your feelings? What about your thoughts? How can one not listen this silent scream?
Tell her what happiness means when it's being taken away, she'll never understand. Never because she's always expected to sacrifice her happiness for his.
For his life is much more worthy than hers, for his statutory is way more recognized than hers.
He fails to compromise, he fails to communicate.
What's left for her?
Marriage is the unification of two people. Why bother get married in the first place if married life is still about individuality? Don't we all confide in each other what's best and for the best?
Marriage is all about family planning, building your own empire/ generation, why don't we all just be in a relationship instead if family is not what you're looking for in the first place?
What your other half thinks, matters. In fact, it matters the most because they know you/ they know what's best for you. How fair are you to be in a position of being selfish?
Stop being selfish, this life now isn't all about you. No amount of effort can make you succeed without prayers, no amount of prayers can make you succeed without effort. Allah knows what's best for you.
I'm at loss for words.
Totally, dumbfounded.
