People say the darnest, nasty things even when you don't even know who they are and where do they stand in your life.
Social Media Seekers(SMS), I believe, are classified into Major categories.
1) The Apparent Show-offs
SMS who directly telling the world, flaunting their good, extravagant lifestyle or maybe decent life with proper exact usage of words clearly indicating that their life has been nothing but perfect.
2) The Passive Show-offs
These group of SMS are indecisive people. As much as they want to post something interesting in their life, within seconds or minutes, deleting it when train of thoughts starts sinking in the head, or even earlier when finishing their last sentence/ready to post then delete rightaway.
3) The "Best of Both World" Show-offs
Combined of Passive and Apparent. You can't help it, really.
4) The Ghost/Silencer
This has nothing to do with show-offs. Still label-ed as SMS due to hovering around even without accounts(probably using someone else's) to just feed social entertainment. May or may not be judgemental, just trying to keep up with the world(or maybe their stalker's world etc.)
Now let's take a look at it the categories one more time.
1)Apparent(Obvious/direct/bold/outspoken/aggressive/snob)
2) Passive (Indecisive/afraid of being judge/stucked/50-50)
3) Both. (Combined)
4) Silencer (Non-existence/empty/quiet/listener/thinker/judgemental/self-feeding thoughts)
Traits found in those categories seemed rather familiar right? Because it is the fact, we are humans(dafug?)and we are complex. Why do I bother to write up a junk when I can do direct? Cos' people, no wait some humans don't understand that all these traits co-exist in you simultaneously. Trust me, deny it all that you want. It's just a matter of the percentage you're leaning towards. You might be a 85% Apparent, 5% Passive,9% BOBW and 1% Silencer, at different point of your life. Figures will change cos' humans CHANGE too.
It's pretty much similar like extrovert-introvert controversy. Obviously we all there's no such thing as 100% introvert or extrovert right? You mean you're always loud around people, even with those you've just or about to meet? Now let's not go into how human interaction works when you first meet someone; the impression, the cognitive-intepretation of body language.. Oh my god, no.
So now, let's just breathe in positivity. You don't have to necessarily have answers to why they reply/place such statement/nasty remarks on you. If you're dying for answers, please evaluate yourself as a human, in the percentage you're leaning to as SMS.
Or simply other external reasons like:
1) They just don't like anything about you( Deal with it, period. Not everyone will like you. )
2) Seeing same shit, different day. To a point whereby they can't seem to bother anymore and keep on scrolling or to a point whereby making indirect personal-attack( which most will succumb to, I'm talking about those daredevils thinking that the SMS won't notice it but they actually do- I mean, is that all even necessary in the first place? You should just be a silencer, delete your account then stalk afterwards. It's pretty much a privileged to be accepted into any SMS's profile or whatsoever, you get to know something interesting but if you don't like it, just unfollow. Why make things worst? It just says alot about you. How is it that we're treating our friends/family nicer than any other acquaintances or strangers, afterall we're still humans right? We all deserve to be treated like how we want to be treated as well, no? So make peace and shut your bull-crap unnecessary remarks if it doesn't bring any good to anyone. So what do you gain, again? Satisfaction? You can just say it verbally to someone rather than having to let the whole world see thus, others will judge again. Back to square one. *boomz*
3) They are low-life. Never making the best/wise, reasonable choice in their life(no wait, at that very point of their life) thus, the scrutinization. ( Nothing to do with " Oh they're just jealous". Stupidest remark ever, of which I will honestly admit to saying it once then I'd be like.. "What the fc*k just came out from my mouth?" Upon realization after, emotion(read: Rage) simmers.
So there you have it. Feel better now?
I sure do. Okay lol. A long-crappy blogpost just to instill realization back into my mind. HAHA. Agree to disagree? Go ahead, the world is just there to judge, the vicious-cycle. Back to square one again. *BOOMBZ* (Sorry I can't help it, inside joke only bubs and I understand. So kau diam-diam sua, k? )
Chao-lobeteh. Dah pukol 4am tatau nak tido besok kerja. Zzz
xoxo.
(Warnings; Siapa rasa chilli, dia rasa pedasnya. No wait, am I supposed to put this warning at the start? Hah, baca jugak korang. Oh, my hantu-hantu(Read: Stalker) and oh, if it still doesn't make sense to you, mind my 20% ADHD, okay joke.)
