To my love,
My sweet sweet love. It's the 2nd of October 2014, 10 months ahead after the official semi-knot. Time flies whenever I'm with you. Totally amazed by how far we've come and I'd never imagine how life be like without you. I never get tired telling people how you complement me so well, it's like seeing me in a different gender and whatever flaws that I have, that's your strength. Just like how fingers interlock. You filled in the empty spaces, I've never felt so complete.
10 months has been a challenge, no doubt. Well, in a good way of course. How preparations for the Big Day succumbs us in many ways, especially involving our finances. I learnt how to say "No.", prioritizing what needs to be done and also living life like how other couples who are in the same stage as us. All in all, I'm glad that I'm going through this phase with no one other than you. Thank you for being the most patient, most adorable and most strict partner for me. Though I'm foreseeing many more hurdles in the next 14 months, I'm prepared so long you're still there just right beside me.
I love you and only you, Ahmad Hilmy. Forever and always.
Yours Sincerely,
Dearest Fiancee.
Bonswa, Good evening!
Since I'm free right now, might as well do a quick update, aye? H's currently is on another continent of the world, sleeping his day away while I rot here in Singapore. Super broke and obviously not intending to spend since I'll be at home for the next 2 days till he comes back. Tell me this is normal right, to be broke? heh. All in the name of preparations, honey. I'm sure that it'll all be worth it, I'll eventually see where my money goes to.
Here's another good news for us! We finally secured our solemnization venue for next year, couldn't be more relieved than worrying about the venues.
Y E Y!!!
I think I've pressured H too much, got to cut him slack a little since my lover boy have been so cooperative these few months. I love you baby!
So what's my/our next move? Here's a draft checklist for self-reminder.
The Checklist
1) Venues (Solemnization, Dinner Reception and Lunch Reception) ✔️
2) Bridal (Chantique Bridal Gallery + Stella Anggun) ✔️
3) Marriage Preparatory Course (January 2015)
4) Wedding Ring (January/July)
5) Customized Solemnization Outfit (June 2015)
6) Photographer (Waiting for response)
7) Videographer (Still in a midst of psycho-ing H! Decision will be based on our finances probably 6 months due to wedding)
8) Solemization Gubahan Tray (DIY)
9) Solemnization Food Catering (20 paxs)
10) Wedding Miscellaneous:
- Wedding Cake(s)
- Wedding Shoes
- Lunch Reception Table Deco
- Hand Bouquets ( Solemnization + Lunch Reception ) - DIY + Etsy
- Wedding Shoes
- Wedding Transport( Tok Kadi + Wedding Car)
- Lunch Reception Hotel Accomodation (Pan Pacific Serviced Suites)
- Reception(s) Music Entertainment
- Solemnization Outfits- Family
Couple Miscellaneous:
- Dentistry (Teeth Scaling/Whitening/Polishing)
- Facial/Spa Massage/ Hair treatment etc
- Couple-lorette (Subject to budget available) + Henna-Night
11) HONEYMOON
Okay lahh, This one not draft anymore. lol.
Here it is! No secrets from now on, or is it?
hehe.
xoxo.
